BackyardigansBecoming a father incurs a lot of responsiblity and challenges, but the most rewarding aspects of fatherhood outweigh anything else. You notice that through your own children you’re able to become a child again and that’s an amazing turnaround since becoming an adult means having to tone down or leave behind certain aspects of your childhood.

Lately my daughter Zoe and I have been spending time watching cartoons, mostly because at 15 months she’s starting to enjoy them moreso than when she was younger. Her favorite prime-time cartoon is The Simpsons and whenever that familiar Danny Elfman tune carries itself through our apartment she’s immediately attentive. She dances to the theme song and then for the next half-hour (or 15 minutes, thank you Tivo!) she just sits there quietly and smiles, occassionally pointing to the television and bobbing her head up and down like a baboon.

A co-worker of mine shared with me that he enjoyed watching a show called The Backyardigans with his daughter, Maddie. He mentioned that the show, which stars a bunch of computer-animated animals (and one alien named Uniqua) depicted various pretend situations like pirate adventures. At that point I programmed Tivo to pick up on a season’s worth of episodes hoping it was as cool as my co-worker had described. The fact that it promoted imagination was an immediate attention grabber for me since to this day I still tend to sway towards my creativity to carry me along, especially when life throws it’s curveballs.

To me, it’s a wonderful thing to be spending time with my daughter watching these shows. It makes me happy to see her dancing along with the music and casually glancing back to me waiting for my reaction. Through her I am able to revisit certain parts of my childhood and that in turn makes me nostalgic for the past but appreciate the future.