Riddle of Retirement

April 7, 2005

Billy DoveFor the big name celebri­ties in Hol­ly­wood who will even­tu­ally retire some­day there will be a man­sion or pri­vate get­away wait­ing for them. How­ever, what hap­pens to the lesser known celebri­ties, musi­cians and writ­ers when they retire?

The answer is the Motion Pic­ture and Tele­vi­sion Fund Coun­try House, a retire­ment com­mu­nity that houses char­ac­ter actors, reoc­cur­ring extras and other celebri­ties. Every res­i­dent has more than a hand­ful of sto­ries to tell, tales that describe min­gling with celebri­ties like Elvis Pres­ley, Grace Kelly and Jack Lem­mon and mem­o­ries full of love, laugh­ter and most impor­tantly years of effort.

83-year-old char­ac­ter actor William “Hal” Rid­dle is a res­i­dent of the com­mu­nity and his story reads like a child­hood dream.

Grow­ing up in Ken­tucky, Rid­dle had dreams of mak­ing it big in Hol­ly­wood. More often than not he would skip school to attend show­ings at the local the­atre, bask­ing in the glow of Hollywood’s magic. At 11 years old, Hal fell in love with a young silent film star by the name of Bil­lie Dove, a crush that would last for the next 60 years. Mus­ter­ing up enough courage Hal wrote a let­ter to Dove and received an auto­graphed photo with the mes­sage “Greet­ings! Bil­lie Dove”.

Through­out the years Hal has col­lected sev­eral celebrity (and Hol­ly­wood) para­pher­na­lia. When he retired in 1995, and moved into the Motion Pic­ture and Tele­vi­sion retire­ment com­mu­nity, he dusted off his pic­tures and hung them on the wall, admir­ing most of all the auto­graphed pic­ture from Bil­lie Dove.

Over the next sev­eral months Hal rem­i­nisced of his past expe­ri­ences, includ­ing; a vari­ety of bit parts in movies, doing three pic­tures with Elvis, test­ing the pilot Beat the Clock with James Dean and of his room­mate Jack Lem­mon. All of these expe­ri­ences never quite lev­eled with that of his admi­ra­tion and love for Bil­lie Dove, some­thing that he endured for the greater part of his life.

One day he received a call from an employee at the Motion Pic­ture Retire­ment home. She told Rid­dle that she had heard from var­i­ous mem­bers of the com­mu­nity of his infat­u­a­tion with Bil­lie Dove, and much to his sur­prise she men­tioned that Bil­lie Dove was a res­i­dent of the Motion Pic­ture & Tele­vi­sion Fund hos­pi­tal, less than a 5-mile walk from Riddle’s cottage.

The very next day Rid­dle walked to the hos­pi­tal to visit his child­hood crush and despite her ill-health and con­sid­er­able aging (she was 96 years old) through his eyes he saw the same woman in the pic­ture, youth­ful and extremely beau­ti­ful. As Hal described, “..I could see the essence of her beauty still. I was shak­ing like a leaf.”

Rid­dle con­fessed every­thing to her, includ­ing his boy­hood crush, his fre­quent days play­ing hooky and watch­ing Dove in Ado­ra­tion and how much the pic­ture still meant to him after so many years. Towards the end of the visit Dove requested to see Rid­dle ask­ing him if he would like to visit her again.

Over the next few days Hal Rid­dle and Bil­lie Dove formed a friend­ship and much more than that in fact. Accord­ing to the hos­pi­tal staff, Dove would ask for her hair and lip­stick to be done by the nurses prior to Hal’s visit. Bil­lie Dove would sit silently in her wheel­chair as Hal would wheel her around the the home care­fully lis­ten­ing to her many sto­ries of Hol­ly­wood life.

Over time, Hal could tell her health was get­ting worse and shortly before he was to leave for Alaska she made him promise that he would return to her, afraid that he was going to leave her. When Hal returned it was on New Years Day (a year since they had met) and when he went to visit her the nurse informed him that she had passed away.

How­ever, despite the sad­ness, Hal real­izes that he was blessed with the com­fort of his res­o­lu­tion; to finally meet his child­hood crush. In Hal’s words;

When you stop and think about it, it seems ironic. I guess the world has a long tail. You never know when an 11-year-old boy in Ken­tucky is going to write a fan let­ter to a star and years and years later get to be her friend. It’s a mag­i­cal wonder.

 

10 comments

Beau­ti­ful story. His quote is spot on. Mag­i­cal wonder.

by Rob Mientjes on April 7, 2005 at 4:06 pm. Reply #

*cough* my dejá vu sense is tingling…*cough*

Great, lovely story anyways.

by beto on April 7, 2005 at 5:45 pm. Reply #

Nice story.…some Hol­ly­wood peo­ple retired in Bishop, Ca. or Lone Pine, Ca.
Keep up the good work.…I’m proud of you.
dad

by dad on April 7, 2005 at 9:22 pm. Reply #

That is a nice lit­tle story. Haha…you’ll never be able to re-post one of these with­out an old timer “tingling”.

by Greg on April 7, 2005 at 11:17 pm. Reply #

Greg: I agree, but I don’t think any rule exists that pre­vents me from doing so (not say­ing you implied that). In fact I wish more writ­ers of blogs would do the same. There’s a lot of good mate­r­ial that gets buried and it really doesn’t mat­ter how good your archives work.

In this case I didn’t just repub­lish it but also rewrote cer­tain parts of it, things I felt could be expressed more clearly within the context.

I think it’s a beau­ti­ful story.

by kartooner on April 8, 2005 at 7:41 am. Reply #

You should write a story about your won­der­ful brother. :-D

by Matt (brother) on April 8, 2005 at 11:52 am. Reply #

Hal, you’re a tru­ely remark­able per­son. I’m of a dis­tant rela­tion to you and I have heard many won­der­ful sto­ries about you. My mom, Cheryle, has showed me some of the nice cards and let­ters you have sent to the fam­ily over the years. You’re a great role model and I appre­ci­ate your avid Chris­tain val­ues. I plan to take my own fam­ily to the Mur­ray Museum to see your col­lec­tions and I hope some­day I will have the honor of meet­ing you. I’m cur­rently in Ele­men­tary Edu­ca­tion pro­gram with West­ern Ken­tucky Uni­ver­sity and enrolled in a Geog­ra­phy of Ken­tucky course. One of my assign­ments is to give a pre­sen­ta­tion of a famous Ken­tuck­ian and of course I chose you for my pre­sen­ta­tion. I look for­ward to shar­ing some of your sto­ries and accom­plish­ments with my fel­low class­mates. Once again, thank you for being such a won­der­ful role model!

by Shana on April 2, 2007 at 5:02 pm. Reply #

Hello, Hal:

You might remem­ber that you gave me the help­ing hand of guid­ance over 41 years ago. I was watch­ing an old movie, Johnny Dan­ger­ously, and there you were.

Thanks,
Tom

by Tom Alibrandi on September 25, 2007 at 10:39 am. Reply #

Hello Hal,
I am also a Ful­ton native who now resides with my fam­ily here in Mur­ray KY. WOW! What a beau­ti­ful story. Your work is greatly admired…As a side note, I am a great fan of Mar­i­lyn Mon­roe, just won­dered if there were any inter­est­ing sto­ries in that area? Look­ing for­ward to your movie!
Respect­fully, Karen

by Karen on November 28, 2007 at 7:35 am. Reply #

I used to wait on Hal and his father at Moon­Lite Restau­rant in Owens­boro, KY when he came home to visit. I always looked for­ward to his vis­its. He is one of the sweet­est, cutest, and nicest men I’ve ever met. Have had a crush on him for about 30 years.

by Kathy on February 24, 2009 at 10:57 pm. Reply #

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