Opportunities and Success

May 17, 2004

What kind of world do we live in where an indi­vid­ual with a qual­i­fied Mas­ters degree ends up work­ing at a low-paying job with sub-standard ben­e­fits, as opposed to some­one with­out qual­i­fi­ca­tions ends up mak­ing $80 to 90-thousand dol­lars a year with solid ben­e­fits? It seems to me that cer­tain aspects of cul­ture can incur back­wards results.

This thought spurred from con­ver­sa­tions I’ve had with peo­ple who’ve earned their degrees and yet either haven’t applied them­selves, or their luck hasn’t struck a suc­cess­ful chord. It’s an inter­est­ing conun­drum and cer­tainly mer­its an expla­na­tion. As I’ve got­ten older and wiser I’m begin­ning to notice the whole pic­ture (or the whole enchi­lada), details start to emerge and expla­na­tions for cer­tain unex­plain­able events surface.

In this instance it seems that for most of the pop­u­la­tion “suc­cess” is mea­sured by who you know. More­over the con­nec­tions you form and how they work for you in the busi­ness world, which as a result can lead you to a high pay­ing posi­tion, if that’s what you’re look­ing for that is. For some, suc­cess might have dif­fer­ent cono­ta­tions and while hav­ing a high-paying cor­po­rate job is the ideal dream, for many hav­ing a degree (be it an Asso­ciates, Bach­e­lors, Mas­ters, etc.) doesn’t nec­es­sar­ily pave the way for your success.

Get­ting the degree is the first step, apply­ing your skills and your­self is the most impor­tant in this process. From those I’ve talked to, this can be dif­fi­cult and because of age restraints in the busi­ness world, you’re guar­an­teed to lose a lucra­tive posi­tion to a younger per­son who equals your qual­i­fi­ca­tions. It’s a sad fact but it is real­ity, and many times as I’ve men­tioned, it’s who you know and not just what you know.

There are no magic beans. You can’t always expect a beanstalk to grow and lead you to higher ground. How­ever, what you can do is believe in your­self and improve your skills on a daily basis — refrain from becom­ing stale — and watch as new oppor­tu­ni­ties lay them­selves before you. Just remem­ber one thing; do this for yourself.

As Bill Cosby once said:

I don’t know the keys to suc­cess, but the first step to fail­ure is try­ing to please everyone.

 

6 comments

A very lucid, hon­est and inspir­ing post.

This has been some­thing that has always per­plexed me and like you, as I get older, I’m start­ing to see things clearly. You just have to keep plug­ging away and work­ing hard and hope­fully you will be rewarded.

by Todd on May 17, 2004 at 7:32 pm. Reply #

Won­der­ful post! I spose maybe I’ll stay in school for a cou­ple more semesters…

by Jeff on May 17, 2004 at 5:11 pm. Reply #

Some words of truth in here. I’ve always said “It’s not about what you know, but who you know”, and year after year of hard-learned lessons through life expe­ri­ence have solid­i­fied this state­ment. I fin­ished my master’s degree at col­lege only to find out that, out­side the Gov­ern­ment and aca­d­e­mic cir­cles, col­lege degrees aren’t worth shit — luck­ily I had a lot of work expe­ri­ence already before leav­ing college.

I think about the “men­ace of the youngest” sit­u­a­tion from time to time — about the only way you can get around this IMHO is to save up and start rolling your own busi­ness, so no one is going to fire you when you are 40… of course, the catch is that when things go worng, you have no one else to blame for yourself.

But it is pretty much worth it. I’m look­ing for­ward to it.

by beto on May 17, 2004 at 5:43 pm. Reply #

Last post should say “wrong” and “blame but your­self” respectively.

I cant spel corectly when I am void of my evn­ing cofee.

by beto on May 17, 2004 at 5:45 pm. Reply #

Nice post. It really is who you know, and it will suck when you get right out of school. How­ever, stick­ing with it will get you atten­tion even­tu­ally in your cho­sen pro­fes­sion. I’m get­ting intro­duced into another pro­fes­sional sphere slowly but surely, and get­ting estab­lished for a sec­ond time I can say it is from doing the work as best I can. Peo­ple notice even­tu­ally and they become con­tacts, and con­tacts really do want to help you suc­ceed. Basic human nature.

I know it sounds lame and it is frus­trat­ing, but patience is a virtue in this case.

by Max on May 20, 2004 at 8:07 pm. Reply #

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